This afternoon I went into the bank to make a deposit and my favorite teller greeted me by name.  “What are you doing this weekend?” she asked.  I replied, “I’m giving a talk on Death, Dreams, and the Afterlife.”  At first she had no expression and I thought mabye she had some judgments about the title, but then I heard her ask, “You mean from someone we love?”  I said yes.  Then I suddenly realized I needed to ask, “Have you had a dream like this?”  She nodded.  I probed, “Was it like a visitation?”  She told me, “Yes, it felt really real.”  I ventured, “Can you tell me who…